We endeavor to make your on-line experience an unforgettable one. To help you get the most from your adventures, here are some useful Tips:

1. Be honest. There's nothing more frustrating than spending time getting to know someone and realising you have been mis-lead. If you have posted information on your profile that is not exactly honest because you need to protect your identity, (including photos) then indicate on your "details page" that "some information has been purposefully mis-stated due to privacy concerns". If the person still chooses to correspond with you, then promptly advise them of the truth immediately after making contact - especially where it pertains to your physical description and availability.

2. The pen is mightier than the sword and yours should be too. Especially since it is impossible to read body language or facial expressions when you are chatting through instant messaging or mails. Short sentences and an over-inflated appraisal of your sexual abilities may not get you the replies you're looking for and you probably won't be taken too seriously when it comes to taking it up a notch. Remember, you're competing with a lot of other guys and gals on this service and like you, they have a lot to offer.

3. If your objective is to seek only physical encounters, you may wish to refrain from initiating contact, or replying to, members or online hosts that indicate they are only seeking cyber affairs or erotic chat. It is unlikely that someone can be convinced to meet in person if their stated preference is to only maintain an affair online.

4. Stay away from escorts plying their craft. Accordingly, our service should not encourage you to feel as though profiles are sure things just because they have posted an ad on the web site. Many people that wish to meet for casual or long term affairs will probably want to develop some chemistry and trust before deciding to meet in person. Women and men do not necessarily make themselves available to any and all volunteers so you should have reasonable expectations about meeting members through our service. In many circumstances, sex becomes a part of having an affair but is not necessarily the reason for an affair.

5. Remember, it is very possible that you may be different than the type of person someone is looking for - especially if you were not honest from the start. Always be respectful of other people's preferences and stay courteous at all times.

6. Pictures get about 6 times more response than profiles without pictures. If you are unable to post a picture in your profile details page, you may consider posting one or more photos in your private showcase. Private showcase photos are not publicly displayed and can only be viewed by members that have been provided with an access key. Access Keys are granted by you at your own discretion.

7. Tell as much about yourself in your profile details as you are able to reveal. The less surprises, the better. Also, more information helps someone filter through the profiles they are not interested in so they can get to the ones they will really like - especially since many people will randomly wink multiple profiles in anticipation of hedging a response. Keep your profile current and fresh. Update your caption often and tell about your circumstances.

8. It usually takes about 2-4 weeks to connect with someone that has agreed to meet you. Conflicting schedules, children, spouses, jobs and other commitments usually means that people are not able to simply jump in a cab and drive over to meet you at the closest hotel. Be patient and flexible at the outset. Suggest chatting online, talking on the phone or meeting for coffee first. Doing so will speak volumes. Nobody wants to take unneccessary risks with a person that carries on in a random, anxious manner.

9. If you are unable to reply to mail-messages in a timely manner, use the auto-respond features. The auto-respond mechanism is a courtesy feature that lets you notify other members that you're not always available to reply quickly to mail messages, amid high volumes of mail, discretion, absent, etc.

10. Always be safe and mindful of what you are doing. Having fun should not expose you to unnecessary risks. Be smart. Remember, everyone you initially meet on this system will be a stranger to you. We do not pre-screen members and do not endorse any profile on this system.

11. If you are single and wish to meet an attached person, you are probably going to have to try a little harder. Single people don't have as much to risk and you may find some attached people unwilling to take a risk with you. People in relationships may feel that you have an upper-hand and that you may not be sympathetic to their circumstances. Take your time to build an additional level of trust with attached people you wish to meet.

12. Alternatively, single people have more flexibility with their schedule & are usually more available. Singles are more apt to work within your limitations since they have few boundaries. Single people can also be more fun to be with - their guard is down & they don't care who sees them.

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